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September 01, 2008
I Don't Understand!!/ 5:38 PM Woo, went Tonkichi to eat last nite with wei xiang (Crystal) till so damn full. wakaka. Nice meal. The person serving me even nicer. Hahas. =P After the meal feel so bloated and tired that i went straight home to sleep. Juz woke up now. Kinda early for me today. xD I realised my money spend super fast. lols. The way it flies is like in chunks. Not small amounts. Only got $500 for this month's salary. Spent $250 on play, eat and transport. $100 for dad's birthday treat. And now i'm only left with $400 including my monthly allowance of $300. Gotta learn to save up when i enter NS 9 days from now. Don't know how it's gonna be like. Take it as a training program to build up and gain weight, Hahas. Anyway, i seriously don't understand something. First of all, whenever i go on an outing, i'll never ask those people studying or exams around the corner out with me. Second, i choose carefully who i actually hang out with and so i don't make stupid mistakes like hanging out with wrong groups of friends. Last of all, i personally feel that i'm a rather nice guy in a sense that i don't lead others astray. So WHY IS IT THAT WHENEVER OTHER PEOPLE ASK ME OUT AND I AGREE, THEIR MOTHER WILL CALL ME UP AND KAO BEI KAO BU~!!????? Last time it was Quek's mom. He's the only child and his mom is a super paranoid and i understand that so i just gave in to whatever she said. But he's already like 18 yrs old at that time? Can't give him more freedom? 2 years from then, i'm not as close with him anymore as in we don't hang out as often. So that stops his mom's nagging and stuff. And now, 2 years later. Wei xiang asked me out to "destress" from his studying as he's taking his "A" lvl this year. He seldom ask me out so i agreed. Get this point, " I DON'T ASK PEOPLE OUT WHEN THEY ARE STUDYING. I DIDN'T SAY I WON'T AGREE TO GO OUT WHEN THEY ASKED ME." There's a big difference there. Anyway, after he asked me out, i don't know how in the world his mom actually got my number. She called me and actually ask me to not go out with him. The conversation was like, WxMom : Helllo, is that sylvester? (She speaks chinese) Me : Yes, Who's this? WxMom : Oh, hello. I'm Wei Xiangs mom hor. Can i ask you not to go out with my son? Me : HUH? WxMom : WeiXiang is having his A level this year and it's very crucial for him. So can i please ask you not to go out with him?? Me : .............................. WxMom : Hor? Hor. Ok ah. Thanks hor. Sorry to call you ah. Please don't tell WX i called you. And she hung up. Seriously, i ignored that call. Simply because that's a stupid thing for me to do and cause i didn't ask your son out. He asked me out madam. And he said he needed to take a break and destress also. According to him, he's not a monster who can keep studying for 3 months like his mom wants. At first i didn't tell Wx that his mom called as she told me not to + if i did, they'd sure have another commotion about his mom calling me. After a few hours, the phone rang again -.- This time it sounded unfriendly... >:( WxM : Hello Sylvester? I thought i told you to not go out with my son??? How come you can't understand that? He's having his exams soon and i don't want him to run about. I want him to concentrate on his studies!! Why can't you just leave my son alone?????? Please please i beg you just let my son off. Next time got chance i will invite you to my house as a guest ok? OK. Me : ( Seriously, i don't even wanna talk to you about this. You being a mom like that would never listen anyway.) ............. As usual, she hung up. Although i was keeping quiet, i was damn pissed. First of all, I DIDN'T CALL YOUR SON OUT. HE ASKED ME OUT. Secondly, IF YOUR SON IS HAVING EXAMS, THEN LOCK HIM HOME IF YOU DON'T WANT HIM OUT OF THE HOUSE. Thirdly, IF YOU'RE SCARED THAT YOUR SON IS HANGING OUT WITH THE WRONG GROUP OF FRIENDS THAT WILL LEAD HIS ASTRAY, THEN DON'T GIVE HIM ANY ALLOWANCE. AND LASTLY, DON'T FUCKING CALL ME IF YOU CAN'T CONTROL YOUR SON. IT'S YOUR OWN FUCKING FAULT THAT YOUR SON NEEDS A BREAK FROM YOUR CONSTANT NAGGING AND THAT YOU MISUSE THOSE INFORMATION YOU GOT FROM HIM LIKE CALLING HIS FRIENDS AND HARRASSING THEM ABOUT YOU NOT BEING ABLE TO CONTROL YOUR SON. THAT'S YOUR FAMILY MATTER AND I DON'T FUCKING CARE AT ALL. I just fucking told weixiang everything after that and i'm sooo damn pissed i tell you. She's my friend's mom and i know she's concern about what he's doing and who he's hanging out with. Of course his studies is as important to her as anything else. You're a mom, i understand. So what? I got my mom too. And i don't see my mom degrading herself to the point of MAYBE stealing numbers from cellphones that has records of other people's number and calling my friends making a scene that doesn't concern them at all. Yea you can say because my mom doesn't care as much. But that isn't true. She cares as much as any other mom cares about her child. Maybe much more for that case. For that but not only that, i love my mom and my family alot. At least they know the meaning of privacy and freedom and don't do things that xia suay them or me in any case. And i dare say compare to many other parents that i know, my parents are the best. Strict, but good. I can take them as friends or parents. They can live with both. Many out there, can you do the same? No offence not trying to insult other people's mom but i just wanna prove that there's a difference in how moms behave even if their thinking are the same. Srry Weixiang, maybe i gave a very bad impression of your mom from this. But i'm sure you know what i mean. Maybe i'll say sorry to your mom too. Over here. But i doubt she'll see it. =P Well anyway, i'm gonna go down have my breakfast and forget about this incident. It's a new day, new start. xD |
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